Back so soon

Now im really freaked out for my date tomorrow, because tonights was horrible! LOL we had nothing in common and he was a dumbass. I got to the pizza place a few minutes early, picked out a table and the fucker was late. Almost late enough that if he wasn't there in the next 5 minutes i was gonna leave. He was given my cell phone number so there was no reason not to call. Didn't say sorry for being late or anything. I kept asking questions and would get 1 word answers and then nothing. He texted a bunch and was a sloppy eater. I have no idea why I was set up with him. Im not super close with my cousins, but geez they should atleast know we wouldn't be a good match. Geez if tomorrow goes like this then im done letting them set me up with anyone. I even thought about canceling but that would be rude.
I think what the issue was is the guy tonight is friends with my ex hubby #2's sister. My whole family is very close to their family so my cousin (we'll call this one bob because this is getting confusing) Bob is really good friends with the Ex's sister. Normally not a big deal but im sure he got some crap for going out with me and was just pretending to be rude, because I dont see how ANYONE could really be this rude.
The guy im going out with tomorrow isn't friends with the ex's family, so that should help. He's my older cousin's (we'll call him Fred) friend (bob is my age, fred is 40 or close to it).